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When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us: Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway,Free Press #ad - Adams offers a positive, life-affirming message to parents who are still trying to "fix" their adult children -- Stop! She shows us how to separate from their problems without separating from them, and how to be a positive force in their lives while getting on with our own. How do today's parents cope when the dreams we had for our children clash with reality? what can we do for our twenty- and even thirty-somethings who can't seem to grow up? how can we help our depressed, dependent, and especially, their parents, capable "adultolescents" won't leave home or come boomeranging back? Who can we turn to when the kids aren't all right and we, who are just marking time or even doing it? What's the right strategy when our smart, are frightened, or addicted adult children, frustrated, resentful, disappointed?In this groundbreaking book, a social psychologist who's been chronicling the lives of American families for over two decades confronts our deepest concerns, including our silence and self-imposed sense of isolation, embarrassed, the ones who can't get their lives started, when our grown kids have failed to thrive.
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But they haven't, we're letting their problems threaten our health, not yet -- and meanwhile, at least, freedom, marriages, security, careers or retirement, and other family relationships. With warmth, and perspective, empathy, Dr.
Setting Boundaries® with Your Adult Children: Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling ParentsHarvest House Publishers #ad - This important and compassionate new book from the creator of the successful God Allows U-Turns series will help parents and grandparents of the many adult children who continue to make life painful for their loved ones. Writing from firsthand experience, Allison identifies the lies that kept her, and ultimately her son in bondage—and how she overcame them.
Additional real life stories from other parents are woven through the text. A tough–love book to help readers cope with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries® with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S. A. N. I. T. Y. A six–step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.
Setting Boundaries® with Your Adult Children: Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents #ad - S = stop enabling, stop blaming yourself, and stop the flow of moneya = assemble a support groupn = Nip Excuses in the BudI = Implement Rules/BoundariesT = Trust Your InstinctsY = Yield Everything to GodForeword by Carol Kent When I Lay My Isaac Down.
The Enabler: When Helping Hurts the Ones You LoveWheatmark, Inc. #ad - The Enabler: When Helping Hurts the Ones You Love #ad - Offering insights, practical techniques, and hope, she shows us how we can transform enabling relationships into healthy ones. Angelyn miller's own experience is a dramatic example: neither she nor her husband drank, yet her family was floundering in that same dynamic. In spite of her best efforts to fix everything and everyone, the turmoil continued until she discovered that helping wasn't helping.
Miller recounts how she learned to alter the way she responded to family crises and general neediness, forever breaking the cycle of co-dependency. Co-dependency-of which enabling is a major element-can and does exist in families where there is no chemical dependency.
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Don't let your kids kill you" is a landmark work that dares focus on the plight of the confused, distressed parent and not the erring child. This harrowing scenario finds parents buckling beneath the stress--often with catastrophoric consequences: Divorce, career upsets, breakdowns and worse. When kids turn to substance abuse, parents also become vicims as they watch their children transform into irrational and antisocial individuals.
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What to do when parenting gets painfully complicated are your adult child’s mental, and physical health issues driving you to despair? Are you tempted to bail your son or daughter out of yet another impossible circumstance? When your child has reached or long since passed the point of independence, emotional, it’s difficult to know what your “help” as a parent should look like.
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Sometimes these families also raise the children their adult children leave behind: 1. 6 million grandparents in the U. S. Joel L. Behind nearly every adult who is accused of a crime, becomes addicted to drugs or alcohol, or who is severely mentally ill and acting out in public, there is usually at least one extremely stressed-out parent.
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Are in this situation.
Unhealthy Helping: A Psychological Guide to Overcoming Codependence, Enabling, and Other Dysfunctional Giving#ad - Everyone faces helping and giving challenges. The book contains theory-and-research based answers for people who help and give in ways that are ultimately harmful to themselves or others. Psychology professor and psychology today blogger shawn meghan burn explores the dynamics of codependent and dysfunctional helping relationships, the difference between healthy and unhealthy helping, why some people are prone to unhealthy helping and giving, what codependence is and where it comes from, and how even the best of helping intentions can go wrong.
Unhealthy helping will help you find that giving and helping sweet spot where your help is truly helpful and your giving is healthy for others, your relationships, and for you. Helping and giving are good. Loaded with research and real-life stories, self-assessments, Unhealthy Helping empowers people with psychological knowledge, including the author’s journey from unhealthy to healthy giver, and practical psychology-based strategies for personal and relationship change.
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Yet at the same time, being a parent of an adult child can bring great rewards. More than 10 years after parenting Your Adult Child was published, much has changed - including young adults themselves, as well as their parents. An online study guide will also be available.
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Parents will develop an understanding of this developmental period and how it intersects with the current economic, social and political times. They’re back or maybe they never left, your eighteen- to thirty-year-old emerging adults. They will become better grounded and confident in their abilities to make informed, sound decisions and will learn how to pick their battles, see the big picture and find effective solutions.
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Some 56 percent of men and 48 percent of women eighteen to twenty-four years old are living with their already recession-strapped parents.
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Stop Enabling Drug Addicts and Alcoholics: Help break the chain of addiction #ad - For whatever reason, an enabler needs to be needed and an addict needs an enabler to take care of them, creating a co-dependency relationship. Do you have an addict in your life that you are helping, but they seem to be spiraling further down into their addiction? Do you wonder why? Enablers have a hard time seeing how “helping” an addict can be a harmful form of behavior.
Helping an addict is harmful if it keeps them from suffering the consequences of their addiction and keeps them from taking responsibility for their choices in life.